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Courage and What it Means to Me

Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation
-- Brian Tracy

This statement is very true. To me, this quote explains that everything that happens to you happens for a reason. Everything good that happens to you, along with everything bad that happens to you, was meant to happen to you for a reason. This quote is a quote on courage because it takes a lot of it to go on with life, and to accept the good along with the bad. The people who stay in the past and weep about everything they have gone through are cowards. They are too afraid to go on with life, afraid of what might happen to them next.


Courage to me is going on with life, no matter what it throws at you. For instance, I grew up with an abusive brother. I thank God for that every day. It took me long enough, but I took the step forward to live with it, and because I did, I can help other people who go through abuse. I can let them know how I dealt with things, and that is something much bigger and better. The pride I have knowing I can and do help other people, helps me deal with my past. If I had the chance to change the past, I wouldn't even have to think about the answer; no I would not.


I was abused for a reason, and because I was, others can come to me. If I had never gone through all of the abuse I went through, I can honestly say, I could not have talked two of my friends out of suicide, nor would I have known to tell their parents about any of it. My two friends get counseling. I believe that what I did to help my friends took a lot of courage, because they asked me not to tell their parents. I took the chance of losing two very close friends as friends, by telling their parents. To me though, risking the chance of losing the friends you love as friends is better than to risk losing them from the world. I am helping my friend's niece because she was recently molested, and she feels she can not go on with life. I can, and do, do all of this because I know what it is like to go through all of those certain topics. All together, this is what courage means to me in my life



I wrote this in my sophomore year. I am going through my floppy disks and trying to find a paper from junior year, but I decided to go ahead and add this to my website as well :)